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Ten Lessons We Learned Beyond Strala Poses

As I board the train to Tarrytown at the close of another weekend, I contemplate the past few months since beginning the Strala Ready-To-Lead yoga training in NYC; I am pleasantly surprised at how much I have grown since beginning the program a few months ago.  It seems to be the case time after time that whenever I feel the most uncomfortable and challenged, is precisely when I learn the most.

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I signed up for the Strala training program not knowing anything about it. I have taken countless yoga classes over the past 5 years, but the transition to Strala style has really helped me connect to my inner me as well as to others in the class.

To understand Strala is to understand Tara Stiles. She is extremely approachable, respectful and has a natural ease about her, very much like the style of yoga she developed – Strala. The basis of guiding Strala is built on attitude which for Tara is about energy, interest in others and connection.

My 2014 Ready-to-Lead class was a unique group of individuals from many different cultures from all over the world!  As Tara Stiles, founder of Strala yoga, would often say, “Our classes are made up of a wide variety of people with different experiences and that’s what keeps it interesting, rather than everyone looking and acting the same”.

I spoke with several of my classmates about their personal take-aways from participating in the Ready To Lead 2014 Class. Here are ten of those lessons learned.

*Special thank you to my fellow Strala guides for your input:  Matt Neely, Laura Brady, Natalie Powell, and Lyz Keating

1. Be Yourself – On my first day of teacher training, my biggest fear going into this class was that I would be the oldest and that I would not be able to do the poses as well as the other students.  As my uptight mindset grew over the initial weeks, I found myself feeling like I was not enough and separating from the group. I finally reached a point where the pain became too big and I needed to either move on or accept myself.  I chose to change my attitude and just be me. When I did this everything else changed. I could see that all of us were having similar experiences and that by separating myself I was missing the experience as a whole. How often do we this in life?

2. Find Your Voice – Coming from a large family, we were taught, kids should be seen and not heard. As a result, I have learned to take up less space in hopes of not getting noticed.  As a guide in Strala to be effective we need to be our best selves and that means connecting with everyone in the room. Therefore, as guides we practice using our body and voice to connect with everyone in the room.

3. Breathe – Always come back to your breath. With breath we are able to deepen our poses, let go of emotion, and stay present.

4. Let Go of Knowing – Lyz a ballet dancer for most of her life has been trained to be precise in every pose. Recently while at a Broadway show with friends to see a fellow friend perform. Lyz said, “my friends asked if I would teach them to break down each yoga pose”.  My friends reminded me how far I have come in letting go of needing to know.  In Strala, the primary goal is to create space in your body and to do yoga in a way that is right for you. As a guide we are taught to guide movement and not pose.

5. Did You Say Play? We had one session at Strala where we learned Children’s yoga (animal yoga).  I found myself really enjoying it, I realized I had let go of play in my life. I had become much too serious with all of life’s responsibilities. Creating space in your life to play whether you are in yoga practice or everyday life is an important reminder. I have learned to let go and say yes to fun more often.

6. Create Space – For Natalie, her Strala journey has created space in her life. Natalie said, “With space comes a new sense of feeling calm, inspired and stronger”. “It makes me feel clear about knowing what I want and who I want to surround myself with. We are the artists of our lives and Strala has taught me that it is simple to design a life you love”.

7. Trust your intuition – “Strala encourages you to make your own choices on the mat for what feels good in your body”, said Laura. “It comes down to trusting your intuition by creating a flow that is right for you. I have learned to pay attention and take this outside of my practice and into my life”.

8. Find Your Balance – In life and on the mat finding our balance can be different each day. Knowing that keeping our balance can often feel like a tree swaying in the breeze (or a storm) our roots are deep and we can draw from that strength.

9. Take Care of You – As a guide it’s imperative that we be our best selves to connect with the class. When you are feeling good you can spread that goodness with others.

10. Permission to go at your Own Pace – For Matt, his biggest lesson is giving yourself   permission to progress at your own pace and rather than arbitrarily attempt to hit external benchmarks. Matt said, “I think this is a big part of Strala’s philosophy, giving yourself space and freedom to do what feels right to you at that moment and knowing that in time, what you’re going for will come whether it’s a handstand or a deeper connection to yourself”.

Thank you Tara Stiles and your team of amazing Strala guides for a life changing experience!.  You created a fun, safe and enlightening space for all of us to grow and connect as Strala guides.

Wendy ~