Today I experienced the most amazing story of connection! I have often said “we are all connected” whatever is happening today or in our past has probably been experienced by others. Our connections makes the world a smaller and more intimate place to live.
My friend Barb first told me about Stephen, she said my brother has a friend who donated a kidney recently. Apparently they knew each other while serving in the Army. They had been stationed in Germany. I was interested to hear his story, not knowing anything about him I wondered how he was doing and why he chose to donate. Stephen and I spoke briefly a few days ago about scheduling a time to talk. Then, after reading my blog he emailed me that we had both donated on the same day just 8 months ago! I thought that was a nice coincidence.
Stephen and I had decided to talk by phone Sunday morning and I was anxious to hear his story. You see, Stephen chose to donate his kidney to a complete stranger. On two separate occasions while leaving church Stephen felt in his heart that it was his calling to donate and his wife Jill agreed. After doing some research on line, Stephen reached out to a man in Chicago and a women in the state of Washington explaining he wanted to donate a kidney and was looking for resources to get started.
Harvey from Chicago answered him immediately and gave him links and information to get him started. He began to build a relationship with Harvey and did not hear back from the women in Washington for some time. When he did hear from her she apologized explaining that for some reason Stephen’s email did not get to her right away. She gave him some information similar to what Harvey had shared and she mentioned that she was an advocate for several people in need of a kidney – and one of them was Harvey.
Stephen was not aware that Harvey was in need of kidney, and immediately made a decision to donate to Harvey, feeling it was meant to be.
Another coincidence is that Harvey had emailed me the day before my surgery (after finding my blog) wishing me good luck and telling me his surgery was scheduled for the same day. I remember thinking about him that Thursday on August 16 and hoping everything had gone well. I find it extraordinary how we are all connected.
- Harvey emailing me the day before my surgery and introducing himself.
- Meeting Stephen who turns out to be the donor for Harvey
- All three of us receiving our surgery the same day
- Stephen contacting an advocate in Washington and then referring Harvey as a donor
- Stephen being a long time friend with one of my closest friend’s brother.
- And ironically it was Barb (my long time friend) who drove me to Pittsburgh for my surgery.
It’s amazing to me how we are connected. Who would have thought someone who sent me a random email 8 months ago that I would be meeting his donor today and that would come from a close friend! Truly enlightening.
At times in our life we can feel so alone and wonder where we fit in. Our differences can often feel like separation to us however when we share — we then realize we are not separate, we are not alone. Today I wake up knowing that we are truly connected.
Feeling as one.