A year ago my brother called me regarding his health, he found out his kidney’s were failing. It was only a matter of months before he would be on dialysis. For years Tim’s health had been failing due to diabetes. I come from a family of six children where diabetes is prevalent; according to data from the National Diabetes in 2011 a total of 25.8 million children and adults in the United States—8.3% of the population—have diabetes. However another 70 million people are “prediabetes”. That’s about 12% of our population.
Tim is my eldest brother who is married, they have a beautiful 10 year old daughter. Tim has saved my life twice. Once when I dove off a raft into a lake Ontario as a child and came up gasping for air. Tim saw me from the shore and immediately swam out to save me, he arrived just as I had given up and was going under. The second time I was in a barn fire around 12 years of age.
It was a fairly easy decision for me to donate my kidney, I figured it would cost me surgery and four weeks of recuperation in exchange for saving a life. I immediately went to my doctor and requested a physical along with determining my blood type. I was disappointed to find out my blood type was different and therefore not a match. A friend of mine told me about the National Kidney exchange program. When I called the Clinical Transplant Coordinator at UPMC in Pittsburgh PA and begin the rigorous process of determining whether I was completely healthy to donate.
I am donating my kidney next week on the 16th of August. I am planning to write about my experience leading up to the donation and then after the surgery in hopes of sharing my story with others who are considering this process.
Wendy
Wendy; my thoughts are with you. I wish you a speedy recovery from your operation.
And, speaking of the “operation”…I hope they are throwing in a cosmetic procedure or two work just for fun. LOL….sorry, you know me. My kidding aside: You are an amazingly brave and loving person. I’m sure things will go smoothly and will be back to normal soon.
You are a true hero. Love, Don
Thanks Don, I wouldn’t mind a bit of a tummy tuck!
Wendy;
You have always been inspirational to me. Your gesture and decision on behalf of your brother is awesome and I respect and treasure your friendship even more as a result. Your story is worth telling and a great spiritual and ” doing what matters” guide to me.
You are amazing.
Love Ya
Clay
Wendy…I will be thinking of you tomorrow. It happens to be the day of my transplant, a 3 way paired exchange.
I started the Living Kidney Donors Network after my first transplant 5 years ago. The BK virus attacked my transplanted kidney.
The LKDN helps people who need a kidney transplant pursue living donation.
After we recover, I would welcome speaking with you.
Harvey Mysel
Founder, Living Kidney Donors Network
Office 312-473-3772
http://www.LKDN.org
http://www.facebook.com/LivingKidneyDonorsNetwork
harvey@LKDN.org
Hi Harvey, thank you for sharing! I will be thinking about you tomorrow as well and look forward to touching base afterwards. Wendy